Photo credit: Tahir Rana, Vaughan, Ontario, Canada

November 2019, I celebrated my birthday in Toronto, a city that has always held a special place in my heart. But this trip was about more than just personal celebrations—it was an opportunity to check in on Tahir, to see how he was adapting to his new life in Canada, and to spend time with Paula, Ruth, and their little son, Arthur. It was a journey filled with joy, reflection, and the warmth of friendship.

Tahir’s Journey to Resettlement

Tahir’s story is one of unimaginable hardship, resilience, and hope. As a member of the Ahmadiyya Muslim Community, he faced severe persecution in Pakistan, a country where Ahmadis are systematically discriminated against under constitutional and blasphemy laws. His situation forced him to flee, eventually seeking refuge in Thailand.

However, life in Thailand was far from safe. Without legal recognition as a refugee, he lived in constant fear of arrest and deportation. The Thai authorities frequently detained asylum seekers, and Tahir, like many others, faced the daily reality of extreme poverty, discrimination, and an uncertain future. For years, he struggled to survive in a system that offered him no legal rights, no access to healthcare, and no possibility of employment.

It was during this time that I met Tahir, and our paths became deeply intertwined. Over the years, I witnessed his strength and determination, despite the immense difficulties he faced. When his resettlement application to Canada was finally accepted, it was a moment of overwhelming joy—a chance for him to finally live with dignity and security.

Once in Toronto, Tahir had to start from scratch. Adjusting to life in a new country—especially after years of hardship—was not easy. Yet, he embraced the challenge with the same resilience that had carried him through his darkest times. He found invaluable support in Paula and Ruth, who played a key role in helping him navigate his new reality, build a sense of home, and regain his independence. Seeing him settle in, integrate, and begin to thrive was truly heartwarming.

Halloween and Birthday Celebrations

Spending Halloween and my birthday with Paula, Ruth, and little Arthur made the trip even more special. Halloween in Canada is a spectacular event, with streets lined with pumpkins, children in elaborate costumes, and a lively atmosphere unlike anywhere else. Celebrating with friends, experiencing the festive energy of the city, and enjoying the crisp autumn air made it a truly unforgettable birthday.

Exploring Toronto and Beyond

Beyond catching up with Tahir, we made time to venture outside Toronto, discovering new places and revisiting old favourites.

Toronto – A City of Contrasts

Toronto, one of the most diverse cities in the world, is a fascinating blend of modernity and multiculturalism. Walking through its bustling streets, I was once again struck by how dynamic and ever-evolving the city is. The towering skyline, dominated by the CN Tower, stands in contrast to the historic charm of neighbourhoods like the Distillery District and Kensington Market.

One of the things I love about Toronto is its cultural diversity—you can hear countless languages spoken on the streets and find authentic food from every corner of the world. From vibrant Chinatown to the Italian cafés on College Street, every district offers a unique cultural experience.

Vaughan – A Visit to the Open-Air Museum

Leaving the city behind for a day, we visited Vaughan, a town just north of Toronto, known for its green spaces and cultural sites. One of the highlights of our trip was a beautiful park and open-air museum, where we stepped back in time and explored Canada’s early settler history. The museum, with its historically preserved buildings and immersive exhibits, painted a vivid picture of what life was like in rural Ontario in the past. It was a peaceful and enriching experience, offering a contrast to the fast-paced energy of Toronto.

A Meaningful and Joyful Trip

This trip was about so much more than just my birthday. It was a reminder of the power of friendship, support, and fresh starts. Seeing Tahir flourish in his new home, reconnecting with Paula and Ruth, and sharing joyful moments with little Arthur made it a truly meaningful visit.

Toronto, with its vibrant energy and endless possibilities, remains a city close to my heart. But more importantly, this trip was about people—their journeys, their kindness, and the way they shape our lives. It was a celebration not just of another year of my life, but of new beginnings, enduring friendships, and the resilience of the human spirit.

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